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STOP TEARING, START BUILDING
Or telling women their appearance looks nice
Is not women empowerment
Understanding that we, as women
Can do anything we set our minds to
Just as well as anyone else
Is real women empowerment
But that's only the first step
As a woman that empowers others
There is always one thing that sticks out to me.
You cannot claim to back up women and support them
While you tear down other women that are more successful.
You do not get to pick and choose which women to support
Based on not her message but her standing or looks.
You must remain unbiased
Pay attention the message and not the social aspect.
This is how we, as women, rise.
If we keep tearing each other down
We are only slowing down the process.
Can you imagine where we would be at now
If instead of criticizing online
We networked and put ideas together to make an empire.
I have run into times where I start to tear someone down, I think most of us can say the same.
It's normally new lovers of my ex's
Or women that I've had personal problems with
But if you stop and look at the bigger picture
You being kind and helping one another
Gets you further than being bitter
And ultimately staying in the same place.
So next time you see a woman post anything
And you think ew why would she post that
Think about how you can help.
For example, let's use a song.
A woman posts a new song she's working on
She's almost ready to release it
But you know it needs more engineering to be great.
Instead of saying yeah that sounds awful
Message her and maybe work together on a masterpiece.
Sounds odd right, maybe a little weird.
Step out of your comfort zone and watch what happens
The whole dynamic changes.
Just think about it, give it a try.
Successful woman don't become successful
By stepping on others but by lifting others.
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